Hey there everyone. Been a long time since my last post so I had to come up with a good post title. Granted this post has nothing to do with hot gay sex but wouldn’t it be nice. Did you think that perhaps my absence has been due to me having some hot gay sex, well sorry it has not and I don’t’ have any details of hot gay sex to share with you. So far I have used the phrase ‘hot gay sex’ 5 times in this post. That’s a lot of hot gay sex isn’t it (hey, there is again).
Hmmm…what to update on. I’m still married, I’m still employed, still busy with the kids and ah yes, I’m still gay…the whole point of this blog right. That’s about all the big things in my life really which I guess is good. I’m still busy at work but our business is slowing down quite a bit at the moment. Some layoffs and hour cutbacks are in store for some, but so far I think I’m pretty safe for a while. Kids are busy for baseball season going on. I’m not a big fan of baseball but I really enjoy the games so far.
Kids are away tonight and so Anginae and I have had a nice day out shopping and dinner. We did something for the first time however…we went to a sex toy shop. She was really embarrassed going in at first. She’s never been in one, but once we got in there she was over being nervous pretty quickly. The sex shops OK are pretty tame considering it’s illegal to sell pornography in the state (we live in a church state here) but they have sex toys, lingerie and other shit like that. It was fun and Anginae got her a new vibrating cock (big) and I got me a little butt plug (something I’ve never had). I’m probably just gonna try it myself, but who knows I may let her try it on me sometime.
I’m thinking of making some changes to my blog. First I need to do a better job of posting, but I also need to refresh the look and also change some of my blog links. I might add some more links to blogs and sites I like to look at. There are some blogs I no longer read, but I don’t wanna take them off if they are linked to me, I just feel that it is a common courtesy to link back to them as well. I may feel like posting some pics of guys I like to look at but I’m not quite sure yet. I still have a few serious posts going, but I think I might like my blog to be more like Nate’s and Dan’s which I both really like; a mix of guys and goings on in their lives. If any of you have some ideas plese let me know.
Just a comment. Dan’s blog is more personal. The photos he has on it a more interesting. Not necessarily more sexy, there is no doubt has got the “sex” part down……but they are all sort of impersonal.
As for sex toys……I always found butt plugs uncomfortable but dildo’s a lot of fun, expecaily the electric ones…..
This is something that I’ve been thinking of. It might help with our current relations further down the road, since the wife is still grappling with my big announcement last week that I was gay. (I still hesitate when I type that, even more when I say it aloud. When does it get easier?)
All I’ve had previous to this is a prostate stimulator thing I bought a couple of years ago when I was away from the family in a hotel for about a year on a tasking. It’s mostly a long-term thing though. It takes a couple of hours to build up, but usually the finale is worth it
Oh! Now I’m all caught up, I’ve read from start to finish. Dammit, I get to this post called ‘Hot Gay Sex’ and expect to hear about your first time, and now I’m going away disappointed. How else am I going to know what it’s like for the first time in your 30′s? Get with the program, sir!
Nice to see you are still blogging. I hope Ang is doing ok I miss reading her blog but see she hasn’t posted since Feb.
If you do change your blog to include pictures or graphic stories would you let me know? I will have to remove it from my blogroll since I have kids clicking on the links and it has been my policy to not link to penises.
Jen: Nice to hear from you; it’s been a while. I don’t plan on posting any porn or graphic stories. If I do I’ll let ya know.
Just wanted to tell you I have just come across your blog and have found it really interesting.
I really had no idea what to expect when I saw that title, yet knowing you a bit was more than enough to expect nothing hot about gay sex :-p (you’ll tell me about your first time before telling the others, right?)
And i very much like your blog the way it is, i don’t mean the quiet times but whenever you post it shows a lot, it’s so like you, it’s so human. Damn I love you buddy and your boring life looks much interesting than mine.
But try posting regularly, ok? and picking a new theme would be nice too though I like that header pic of yours.
Btw Dan’s blog is pretty, thanks for the link.
funny…updating a blog is very akin to re-organizing one’s closet or rearranging living room furniture…sometimes the starting point is the hardest to find…
i look forward to seeing your new blog format…think positive thoughts!
cg
i’m a an amputee white male & i like being naked in my apt. playing with my cock i have a nice cut cock that i love to play with & show off