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Hey there everyone.  Been a long time since my last post so I had to come up with a good post title.  Granted this post has nothing to do with hot gay sex but wouldn’t it be nice.  Did you think that perhaps my absence has been due to me having some hot gay sex, well sorry it has not and I don’t’ have any details of hot gay sex to share with you.  So far I have used the phrase ‘hot gay sex’ 5 times in this post.  That’s a lot of hot gay sex isn’t it (hey, there is again).

Hmmm…what to update on.  I’m still married, I’m still employed, still busy with the kids and ah yes, I’m still gay…the whole point of this blog right.  That’s about all the big things in my life really which I guess is good.  I’m still busy at work but our business is slowing down quite a bit at the moment.  Some layoffs and hour cutbacks are in store for some, but so far I think I’m pretty safe for a while.  Kids are busy for baseball season going on.  I’m not a big fan of baseball but I really enjoy the games so far.

Kids are away tonight and so Anginae and I have had a nice day out shopping and dinner.  We did something for the first time however…we went to a sex toy shop.  She was really embarrassed going in at first.  She’s never been in one, but once we got in there she was over being nervous pretty quickly.  The sex shops OK are pretty tame considering it’s illegal to sell pornography in the state (we live in a church state here) but they have sex toys, lingerie and other shit like that.  It was fun and Anginae got her a new vibrating cock (big) and I got me a little butt plug (something I’ve never had).  I’m probably just gonna try it myself, but who knows I may let her try it on me sometime.

I’m thinking of making some changes to my blog.  First I need to do a better job of posting, but I also need to refresh the look and also change some of my blog links.   I might add some more links to blogs and sites I like to look at.  There are some blogs I no longer read, but I don’t wanna take them off if they are linked to me, I just feel that it is a common courtesy to link back to them as well.  I may feel like posting some pics of guys I like to look at but I’m not quite sure yet.  I still have a few serious posts going, but I think I might like my blog to be more like  Nate’s and Dan’s which I both really like; a mix of guys and goings on in their lives. If any of you have some ideas plese let me know.

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This Blog Sucks

I don’t know whats up with me and this blog. I don’t wanna get rid of it, but I don’t really seem to put in the time to keep it going. I’ve always really been drawn to the idea of people reading my story and commenting on what I write. Perhaps its because I’m vain and crave the attention. Who knows. I always enjoy checking to see how many views I have in a day, but over that last few months I’ve only hit more than 100 views in a day only once. Back last summer I hit that frequently, but when I post but once every other week or so like I do now, that’s bound drop off.

I don’t have anything of significance to update, things are pretty much as usual. I’ve got some little tidbits going on I may write about, and I’ll still have the 3 posts I mentioned several months ago to write about but that’s it really. Same ol’, same ol’ can be a good thing a way I guess.

I haven’t really been on the computer as much as usual lately. I haven’t chatted online with some of my friends as much over the last few weeks and haven’t had much of a desire to post on this blog. No good reason really other than I just felt like a break. It wasn’t from an un-gay spell or anything like that. Just felt like it I guess.

For any of you left out there that care, I’ll try to do a better job of posting more often. I won’t promise but I’ll try. I like it here and don’t want to leave, but for some weird reason if no one is reading I don’t feel like posting.

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phelp1I’m sure I am not alone at all in thinking Michael Phelps is hot.  I guess his recent troubles really got me to thinking about writing this post.  I really feel kinda sorry for the guy.  I mean he’s just 23 and I’m sure has plenty of reasons to wanna let loose and party.  I’ll overlook the fact of how incredibly stupid it is to party and hit a bong when you have millions of dollars of endorsements riding on your ass, or at least do so with a group of people who may snap a pic of you doing it.

I’ve always had a thing for athletes in general, especially swimmers and wrestlers.  I don’t know why really.  I’m not athletic at all and I would never have a shot at a guy like that in a million years (never mind the fact I’m sure most of them are straight).  I particularly enjoyed the swimming (men’s of course) events at the olympics this year, but failed to catch any of the wrestling.  I like athletes more than the fact I think they are hot. I’ve always been envious or jealous of them in a way.  I wish I had the talent, skills and the body to be like them.  I know there is hard work and dedication that makes them what they are, but I also feel there is a good bit of genetics involved in it as well.

I don’t know what it is in particular that I think is so hot about Phelps.  I guess saying I have a crush is really an overstatment, but I just really like looking at this guy, in his speedo or whatever he may be wearing.  About the only other celebrity I can really remember liking so much was Mark Wahlberg back when I was in high school (he’s cute now, but no where near his Marky Mark days).  Anyway, this post gave me a good excuse to look for the picture I posted of him on here.  Speaking of that pic, it’s from the December issue of GQ in which he was one of their men of the year, and would you believe that I got a copy of that issue from Anginae for Christmas.

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Work. That’s a lot of what I’ve been doing lately. It’s also why this blog has sucked pretty much lately. I’ve been extremely busy at work lately and I don’t have much free time for anything else. What time I do I try to spend it with the family.

Last week I had to work all day Saturday, and even though I got to leave the office a little early on Friday, it was pretty much a six day week. This week I’ve been in a training class all week and have had to head into the office a couple of times when it’s over. When I’m done with this week there is a ton of work waiting for me back at the office. I’m not really trying to complain to much. Being busy at work can be a good thing and despite the recession, business has not slowed down too much for us. So far Oklahoma has fared much better during the recession than many other places and I just hope it continues that way. I feel pretty secure with my job even if things do slow down. While I hate to wish for business to slow down, it would help me to get caught on a lot of projects I would like to work on.

One other thing I’ve been working on is my “Commitment” post that I’ve promised. It’s not the easiest post to write and as busy as I am, I’ve having to write it in parts. Just be patient and all three will be here eventually.

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I’ll Do It Eventually

Well it looks like the winning post will be “Commitment”. It wasn’t overwhelming by any means but that one had the most votes (a whopping 3 votes I believe). It’s a post I’ve pretty much had in mind of writing for a while but haven’t gotten around to it. It’s the hardest one of them all to write and it’s one I have the most to say about. I’m still not sure what I’m gonna say or when.

The bigger part of that last sentence (at least as far as this blog is concerned) is when I write it. I just don’t seem to have it in my right now. I may be a little of the same reason why Anginae is not posting much either right now. She went two months between postings and I can understand why. To keep this blog going like I want it to takes some emotional energy that I just don’t care to expel right now. I try to avoid writing something just to say that I did, and since this blog has a theme to it, me dealing with being gay, I try to keep the posts on topic as much as I can. In light of that please excuse any long gaps between posts. I’m still here and I will try to write as often as I can. The post I had you all pick will come when I’m ready to write it, along with the other two that I mentioned.

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Pick the Post

I’m having a hard time deciding what to post about next for some reason. I try not to post about the mundane day to day shit that life normally is. Who wants to read about me waking up, going to work, coming how and putting the kids to bed. That’s what life pretty much is, and I’m not complaining. Who wants drama daily in their life but normal does not usually lend itself to riveting blog material.

I’ve got a few ideas floating around that I’d like to write about but I’m not sure where to start. Some have been ideas for quite some time, some are more recent. Since I can’t decide I’d like a little help. I’m gonna list the name of the post and then you pick the one you want.

1. Losing My Religion
2. She Drives Me Crazy
3. Commitment

Just give me the name or number, I don’t care. I’ll give it just a little while and then try to write it as soon as I can. It’s a busy time of year so don’t expect me to just whip it out (but all you guys out there please feel free to whip it out 😉 )

Thanks for the help.

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Mandatory Post

This is just a post to say that I’ve posted. It’s been almost two weeks since I’ve written anything and I know you all are just dying for another gripping post from me. Fact is, things are pretty much business as usual. Good for me I guess, bad for blog readers. No drama to report at this time.

The little post-Thanksgiving trip I had with Anginae was a nice getaway. Did some shopping and probably spent money we shouldn’t have spent. Oh, well, the recession is sparing most of Oklahoma for the time being and I think my job is pretty safe for a while, at least until all the credit card bills are paid!

Work is still busier than hell, and Christmas is keeping family life busy the rest of the time. Anginae is doing fine and for those of you her read her blog, she’s just too busy and doesn’t seem to find the interest right now in posting. I’m sure she will be back at some time. So that’s it for now. Despite all that is going on, I’ve still got plenty on my mind and will at some point in time take the time to spill it out.

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